My Mistake in Infertility: Feeling Guilty
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My Mistake in Infertility: Feeling Guilty

Infertility is hard enough without carrying the crushing weight of guilt. I spent years blaming myself, trying to “fix” everything, and nearly broke my marriage in the process. Here’s what I learned about letting go of guilt, leaning into therapy, and finding peace—even in uncertainty.

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Infertility Is Grief — And Here’s Why That Matters
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Infertility Is Grief — And Here’s Why That Matters

Infertility isn’t just about not getting pregnant—it’s the loss of the family you imagined, the milestones you planned, and the ease you thought would come naturally. It’s grief, and it’s real. In this post, we’ll unpack what that means for individuals, couples, and families, explore ways to cope, and share how therapy can help you navigate the emotional waves with compassion and hope.

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First Responder Secondhand PTSD: How It Affects You, Your Marriage, and Your Family—And What to Do About It Now
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First Responder Secondhand PTSD: How It Affects You, Your Marriage, and Your Family—And What to Do About It Now

When your partner’s work involves trauma, it doesn’t always stay at the station. Secondhand PTSD is a real and often invisible challenge for first responder spouses and families, impacting mental health, relationships, and home life. In this post, we’ll explore how it shows up, why it matters, and what you can do right now to protect your well-being and strengthen your marriage.

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Infertility, Pregnancy, and Postpartum: Why You Don’t Have to Do It All (and How I Can Help With the Parts That Matter)
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Infertility, Pregnancy, and Postpartum: Why You Don’t Have to Do It All (and How I Can Help With the Parts That Matter)

Infertility, pregnancy, and postpartum aren’t just physical events—they’re full-body, whole-life experiences. From strengthening your pelvic floor to fueling your body with the right nutrition to caring for your mental health, every piece matters. The truth? You don’t need to “do it all” perfectly to feel better, heal, and thrive. Here’s how I bring it all together in a warm, supportive, and realistic way for women and couples navigating these stages.

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The Lie of "Staying Busy" During the Two-Week Wait
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The Lie of "Staying Busy" During the Two-Week Wait

We've all heard the advice—“Just keep yourself busy during the two-week wait.” But when you're facing infertility, loss, or uncertainty, staying busy can feel more like pressure than peace. In this post, I share why that advice fell short for me, what actually helped, and how therapy supported my journey from burnout to intentional healing.

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When the Smoke Doesn’t Settle: The Emotional Weight of Major Deployments and Crisis Events for First Responders and Their Families
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When the Smoke Doesn’t Settle: The Emotional Weight of Major Deployments and Crisis Events for First Responders and Their Families

Major fires, mass casualties, and high-stakes deployments leave more than physical exhaustion in their wake. They leave invisible trauma — not just for first responders, but for their families, too. This post explores how large-scale events disrupt relationships and emotional health, and how therapy can help you carry what feels too heavy to hold alone.

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“At Least You Know You Can Get Pregnant” — And Other Emotional Paper Cuts
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“At Least You Know You Can Get Pregnant” — And Other Emotional Paper Cuts

"At least you know you can get pregnant." It's a sentence meant to comfort — but it often lands as an emotional paper cut. In this post, we explore why those well-meaning words can feel so heavy, how they miss the deeper layers of infertility grief, and what support truly looks like. If you’ve ever flinched at someone trying to make your pain easier to swallow, this space is for you. Let’s talk about what actually helps — and how therapy offers room to hold it all.

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When the Calendar Is the Enemy: Managing Holidays, Events, and Overtime as a First Responder Family

When the Calendar Is the Enemy: Managing Holidays, Events, and Overtime as a First Responder Family

In first responder families, the calendar doesn’t just guide your plans — it controls your life. Between holiday chaos, last-minute call-outs, and feeling like a solo parent more often than not, this season can leave you exhausted and unseen. In this blog, we unpack the stress, add a little humor, share helpful tricks, and explore how therapy can help your family stay connected through the chaos.

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When the Ground Shifts: How Infertility Quietly Shakes Your Beliefs

When the Ground Shifts: How Infertility Quietly Shakes Your Beliefs

Infertility isn’t just a medical journey — it’s a deep unraveling of the stories you’ve believed about life, love, faith, and family. It can leave you questioning everything: your values, your relationship, even who you are. This post explores how infertility silently rewrites the script and how therapy becomes a place to grieve, reflect, and gently begin again.

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Infertility Stressors That No One Talks About
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Infertility Stressors That No One Talks About

Infertility is more than a medical condition—it’s a multifaceted journey that touches every part of your life. From cultural expectations and financial burdens to emotional grief and relational strain, the impact reaches far beyond the body. This post explores how therapy can help individuals and couples navigate the hidden weight of infertility with compassion and resilience.

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“Passing Ships in the Night”: Navigating the Unseen Load of First Responder Families

“Passing Ships in the Night”: Navigating the Unseen Load of First Responder Families

In first responder families, long shifts and emotional exhaustion often lead to quiet role changes at home—leaving both partners feeling like solo parents or passing ships in the night. This post explores how these unspoken shifts impact connection, resentment, and burnout—and how therapy can help couples rebuild balance, communication, and closeness.

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